I always find it kind of strange how hard some people take it (or pretend to take it) online every time someone dies that they never met or knew or hardly ever talked about. I mean I know that is insensitive to sayā¦ but people die every year and if you get hung up every time someone youāve heard of dies you are gonna have a bad time. Itās bad enough just dealing with the deaths of people you know in real life.
Iāve seen many people go and have been touched many timesā¦not āhung upā. Plus amazingly itās never resulted in a ābad timeā.
Sometimes an actor or singer or activist like Martin Luther King for me, has done or said something that has made your life a little bit better. You almost feel like you do know them. When they pass, all those pleasant memories come flooding back.
Maybe you can relate it to Pokemon. Might we all be just a little bit melancholy if the franchise ended today;)
I guess you probably donāt have a Facebook and I know I shouldnāt either but I just think of the ridiculousness every time someone famous dies and it becomes a race for that same handful of overposters to post the first RIP status using the death to yell āLOOK AT MEā to their whole Fakebook world. Leads to even more ridiculousness and people looking like asses 1-2 times a year when the person isnāt even dead yet.
Same thing when a tragedy happens and everyone races to the first āsending prayers and loveā status and filter change on their profile picture.
Eh it is what it is and Iām making comments about it that serve no real purpose either.
Many created as a hoax/joke and they propagate so quick because people fail to fact check and just want to be the first to harness various internet points that donāt matter (likes/shares/tweets/karma/whatever else there is)
It is a touch of narcissism at its finest. Itās also a little bit of the illusion the entertainment industry creates for us. Some people feel as though they actually knew a celebrity just because they were fans. Itās hard to really say if that part of the celebrity that is portrayed in media is actually a part of them or just a facade or just a money making scheme or what have you but itās easy to see how someone can be sad about losing a part of their life that maybe that chunk of celebrity performance represented, even if it didnāt actually represent āknowing themā. After all when people die, we arenāt really sad that they donāt get to keep living, we are sad that they arenāt going to be part of our lives so I am not sure the context is so important. Again, narcissisim at its finest, but thatās just kind of how people are.
Not sure how a self entered or even an erotic interest in yourself relates to this (narcissisim). Maybe Ketchum was talking about you Sam when he talked about being hung up on someoneās death. Yes someones death can evoke fond memories but donāt get carried away. Youāre taking it waaaay too seriously.
@garyis2000 I think its an age gap thing. I think Sam and I are both more on the same page and referring to the social media narcissists than anyone else.
Removing supposed seriousness and back to the original topic. He lived to 83; I hope I can make it that long. I didnāt know him at all but I saw him in some movies. They were okay.
I meant when we lose a family member we are only really concerned with what ever worth they had to us rather than being concerned with their own self interest of living, assuming they had some. That seems really self centered to me but it just seems unnatural or sort of a contradiction to be any different. I donāt really know how we could even potentially view someones death from a different point of view. I guess you can kind of empathize with others, but usually itās the absences of their presence in your own personal life experience that is bothersome. The context doesnāt really seem to matter in my opinion as I see similar scenarios having parallels. Such as the death of a celebrity, or a breakup, or losing a petā¦or burning your collection psa 10 charizards