Another good tip that popped into my head:
If you want to start playing in real, not online: BUY WORLD CHAMPIONSHIP DECKS!
Why? Because these decks have an optimal setup of 10-15 Pokemon, 20-30 Trainers and limit energy. Theme decks you buy from e.g. S&M are rubbish and don’t teach you anything like GX/EX mechanics and proper item/trainer card usage.
They are not tournament legal at all, BUT their decks are build perfectly for tournament play. So if you want to learn the game while playing proper decks, picking up a Championship Deck is a way better thing and way better experience compared to the default Theme Decks and/or Trainer Kits/Half decks.
Should help you choose your trainers and a few much needed pokemon, after that you’re on your own to find what deck you love!
His YouTube channel is a lot of fun and he’s always cooking up great new deck ideas.
Here is his trainers guide for a standard deck.
I also watch/listen to Pctg radio he’s got great info on decks and newly announced cards.
^one of the best decks in the format
Hope this helps.
Also, if you’re just looking to learn how to play, download the Pokemon trading card game online (ptcgo)
Is wonderful and a lot of fun!
ahh the only problem with virbank IMO is just the fact that they tend to have a bunch of jerks. Virbank stems with its toxicity at times. I’d say the subreddits are definitely a safer choice to avoid backlash.