What are the things that make you want to leave the hobby?

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For me it’s how fast the sets release. It’s relentless, just one set after the other, not that you ever see products in the wild anymore. I’d say they should print to demand, but then scalpers warehouses would just get fuller, as demand is truly insatiable and botting is rampant. I also dislike how my social media algorithms are just all Pokemon, its like a constant bombardment of high-value sales which I could never afford, which makes me anxious that I’ve well and truly ā€œmissed the boatā€ on my collection goals. Its now much more stressful to collect, instead of fun.

Like it or not, this hahbee is now a stock market. I hate the terminology such as ā€œportfolioā€ or ā€œinvestmentā€ when referring to cards. Greed eventually ruins everything, and Pokemon is no different.

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Yes the price gouging, scalping, and prevalence of pump and dump cryptoesque scams are discouraging

But there are still many master sets I need to finish and vintage cards I have my sights set on, plus after 5 years since getting back into the hobby I finally got my fiance into collecting. I’ll be here for a good long while

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This post as well as Parrotdox’s mostly sum it up for me.

Bu another thing for me, related to price, is just practical concerns. I think a general price increase for low-end cards would cause me to hop off for a while.

And of course a fire or burglary wiping out my current collection would be hard to bounce back from. It’s not particularly high-end, but replacing it would absolutely be more than i’m willing to spend again at this point.

To be fair, all of these things are pretty unlikely. So I’ll probably continue collecting for a while albeit in a very ā€œreducedā€ state.

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They’re actually spreading it out a bit in Japan so there is actually more time between sets by releasing fewer sets compared to a year ago. The issue is demand, organic or inorganic, has reached a point where time required to print to satisfy it keeps extending, even if the annual set count halves

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A major life event would do it for just about anyone i would think.

In a less traumatic way, I could see myself simply losing interest over time. While I’ve collected consistently since coming back in 2019, there have definitely been months where I wasn’t nearly as engaged with collecting/the hobby as I may be right now. It just fluctuates. Thats a good thing though, I suppose. I’m blessed that I dont have to be fully engaged with the cards 100% of the time. I still am, but its out of choice, not necessity.

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I’m not on social media anymore and it’s incredible. At first it was a little weird and I just started refreshing my emails every 9 seconds, but eventually it became so nice. You realize after you’ve left it how toxic and disgusting and unhealthy social media is. It’s designed for you to stay on the platform, and it’s designed for you to be engaged. People read stuff that they disagree with, so they stay on the platform longer, so they also get fed more stuff than they don’t like. It’s awful. It’s also completely fake interaction with people lol

Even me typing this, you have no idea what I sound like/look like, we’re not sharing any environment together, and the only thing that we are sharing is the fact that I typed this and you are reading it. And even still, you’re reading it how you think I would say it in your head, not even my own voice or rhythm or anything. Everything else is different. And real relationships share things together. Not just interests but environments. They feel the same air, breath the same smells, taste the same foods. And that builds relationship.

Not to say that you can’t have something functioning as a relationship on something like E4, for example (I mean (some of) the people on this forum are really kind and will point you in the right direction every time), but ultimately I’m not dependent of their approval or acceptance because of the real relationships I have outside the forum. And as much as I would love to finally meet some of them, the relationship with them can’t grow without that happening, because then we will have shared something.

All this to say that, I can understand wanting to leave the hobby, especially in a state of depression and self-sabotage, but know that the time you’re in will pass, and you will be okay :slight_smile: you’ve made it before and you can make it this time. I mean, you’re currently making it. So you’re really doing great! I mean look at all the people on your side right now. Way cool!

You got this. We’re with you.

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Almost any comment on any pokemon Facebook group ever

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This forum is the only thing keeping me interested in the social aspect of the hobby. This is probably one of the few spaces that isn’t riddled with constant complaining and dooming by people that have been in the hobby for 5 seconds.

Most things are grounded in realism and relevant memes here. It’s great.

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I’m sorry you are going through a rough time.

For me personally, getting lost in the latest drop, what card is the next stonk, is really tiresome. As someone who came back to the hobby at the end of 2024, I know I haven’t been around as most of the other users on the forum, but just being here makes the pokemon outlook seem more grounded.

Yes, some posts are about the latest big price change or the latest set release, but you can find people who really connect with the cards as well. I’d like to think I’ve made a couple of friends here too!

I also thinking having a healthy balance helps me as well. I really struggle with getting really invested in things and shifting all my focus to that one item, but having other hobbies and things outside of Pokemon provides me with other things to do.

I like to exercise and spend time with my family and friends.

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As someone who’s been addicted to Instagram for too long, E4 has been a breath of fresh air. Everyone on Insta is either a hyperbull saying this bull market is gonna last forever and unironically thinks they’re a financial genius, a sneakerhead trying to sell newly released product at a 250% markup, or a doomer who says the hobby is dead or the market is going to 0. E4 brings a more balanced, more grounded perspective in a world of extremes. This forum takes me back to the mid 00s, when things were simpler, not having the means to drop 5+ figures in a single day wasn’t something you’d be ridiculed over, and moderation was still valued.

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Dishonest sellers is probably number one. Buying a card that is not as described and then having to go through the process or refunding or being denied a refund is so fucking draining. It is exhausting having to navigate around people with no integrity.

Second is the modern price manipulation. Targeted cards’ prices shoot up so fast and in the process ruin your timeline/plan of getting them. They almost always end up at a higher floor than before as well. But the whole process is logical and inevitable too when you have a singular website (TCGPlayer) prone to manipulation dictating market price. There just isn’t enough supply as time goes on to correct manipulated ones.

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The only general advice I’d give is that this usually doesn’t help. Withdrawing from some circles can be important, but cutting off contact entirely just exacerbates the negativity in my experience. I think it’s important to identify which circles make you feel worse/better and adjust time accordingly, though of course that’s just one part, at most.

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Getting priced out by multitudes is definitely something that makes it hard to continue as someone who primarily is into vintage. I’m a working man who doesn’t own a house, has student loans to pay, and has limited fun money to save up for this hobby or others, and while it’s certainly interesting to see people throw around fifty thousand dollars or more on Pokemon cards, everything increasing in price all the time definitely makes me think more than twice about what is and isn’t realistic for someone like me.

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For me I think coming back to the hobby was hard as prices on the stuff I originally owned were crazy! but I found alot of satisfaction in collecting more niche/errors that were even rarer than the typical chase cards. This approach gave me a rewarding sense of accomplishment whilst also tapping into a segment of vintage that I believe is still overlooked! the only thing holding it back in knowledge and as the market becomes more optimised I would imagine people will begin to start looking for unique and rare alternatives, as lets face it nobody wants to spend ridiculous prices on a psa 9 unlimited holo when you can find something that is tryly unique in comparison. So I suppose my counter to the topic is adaption

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Depends. First on what you would call ridiculous, as someone else might find it perfectly alright for a Mint copy of something nostalgic/more fundamental.

I think promo“s get overrated here sometimes. They are awesome, just as error cards (I, for example, love Double Holo errors), but they will always be niche and therefore less sought after.

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Yeah I agree but I also think that niches within things that are popular will do very well overtime! you get the same artwork but also get rarity. I just think that the PokƩmon card market is so huge that eventually niche for PokƩmon wont be that niche espeically stuff thats niche within a non niche product. till date the loud popular stuff has taken the main stage and it likley always will! nut thats not to say there isnt still opportunity in the silence which I believe there is value in, who knows there maybe a narrative in the future that errors are popping off

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I would like to think youre both right, with an exception. Ive noticed an uptick of people who have very subjective takes on what is and isnt an error, as well as a means to shill them which can give them a bad reputation. Modern snake oil salesman type vibes. I think even then very unique errors are still niche, but cool to appreciate!

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Yeah, annoying. I see a lot of people listing as Double Holo where there is none. It“s a bit of a weird one because it seems to be well known, but at the same time, the extremely low POP“s do not affect the cards that much.

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I restarted collecting in 2020 and the market has been a roller coaster ever since. The most fun I had was from mid 2022 - mid 2024 when things felt relatively consistent/stable. In the other 4 years everything was either stonking or crashing.

When you are constantly in a state of ā€œI could’ve bought this for 1/4th that price a year agoā€ or ā€œI should’ve sold this for 4x that price a year agoā€ it takes a lot of the fun away. It doesn’t make me want to leave the hobby now, but I could see myself burning out if the volatility continues.

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