In all my time of selling and buying (I’m from The Netherlands btw) I’ve only had four lost packages. One I send myself to France, one I bought from Germany and two I bought from the US. This includes over 1,000 packages and letters over a course of around five years (mainly twisty puzzles, Yu-Gi-Oh cards and Pokémon cards). And The Netherlands to/from France and Germany is only a couple hundred kilometers…
BUT, lost packages happen sometimes. It sucks, but it happens. I’ve been a mailman myself for two years, so I know mistakes are made and corrected sometimes. Can be during sorting, can be during delivery, can be during transit, can be somewhere else. Everyone makes mistakes sometimes… EVERYWHERE in the world.
Just like some others here, like @xzini , @ivindicatei , @pokemontrader, etc. I’ve had to see some amazing deals fly by in the past due to sellers not shipping from the US to me. Or - in my opinion even worse - they do offer shipping, but it costs 50-120 USD for a package that weights less than 100 grams… Had this happen to me before I started collecting Pikachus and was mainly focusing on my twisty puzzles. I had seen an amazing puzzle from 1991 in a video that I really wanted, and had been looking for one for a long time. About halve a year after I first started looking one popped up for bid. Shipping costs from the US to me: 105 USD… Like wtf, I could almost hop on a plain and pick it up myself for that price…
So I contacted the seller to ask why it was this high. He said it was what eBay charged to ship internationally. He was able to lower it to 60 USD however… So, I bid on the item, and since it’s a rare item and I obviously wasn’t the only one looking for it, it ended above my max bid of 140 USD. However: My max bid was 80 USD due to that goddamn 60 USD shipping costs I had to add. In the end the auction itself ended at 110 USD, most likely to someone living in the US. So I lost, even though I was willing to pay more than the winner, only due to the outrageous shipping fee… (I do have two copies of that puzzle now however, bought it another halve year later.
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Anyway, this was the first time I had ever bid on eBay, and I was pretty disappointed and pissed at the time (especially since I was looking for that puzzle for more than halve a year). So I posted on eBay’s forum. Some were like “Well, that’s just too bad. If you wanted it, you just had to offer more than the winner…”
But other sellers from the US stated they ship internationally sometimes and it would only cost like 5-10 USD, and 60-100 USD was indeed outrageous.
Also one other thing: I sometimes have the feeling Americans are raised with the mentality that they are the superior country and the center of the world. I don’t mean this in a disrespectful way, but that is just how your culture is. Sometimes when I see some comments of kids from the US on YouTube videos I see they don’t even know where countries like the UK or France are located… They’ve lived inside a bubble in the US. (On the other hand, I also don’t know where each of the States are located, so maybe it’s not that weird I guess.
) And I could name a few other examples.
But this mentality also contributed to this shipping fiasco. Retail sellers might think along the lines of: “I don’t know how to ship (cheap) outside the US, and I honestly don’t really care nor want to figure it out. You’re not from the US anyway. I also don’t want to deal with the possibility of my package getting lost, because I don’t know your country.” Some may think it slightly different, but tbh, I can see their point. When I first started selling I also only shipped domestic, just to save me the hassle to go to the post office every time. Everyone has their own reasons to do/don’t do certain things.
Of course the majority of the people from US don’t think this way fortunately, like Danny, Rusty, Gary, Scott, etc. And I can also see some of the points mentioned by those from the US who aren’t really selling internationally, like you Nate / @scratchdesk (and I appreciate you trust me enough to have shipped multiple times to me
Thanks).
Big US sellers will most likely ship internationally for a very reasonable price, but retail sellers putting something up for the first time on eBay might not.
Unfortunately however, this entire discussion is kinda pointless. If they don’t want to ship internationally, we can response with some shipping options that are available and which arrived without a problem from fellow US sellers to educate and convince them. If they then still refuse, then that’s their choice and bad luck for us international buyers. They loose a potential customer, we loose a potential deal, but it’s still their choose and we can’t force them. We just have to deal with it and look elsewhere.
Greetz,
Quuador